"When we strive for perfection, everything becomes heavy; we placed an unneccessary burden on ourselves and on others that causes stress and steals us of time and energy." ~Julie Fuimano

Perfectionism is rooted in fear and control.
OH NO! I'm in the perfection trap.
I really have to keep reminding myself:
To be strict with oneself and to be lenient with others.

But how strict is strict, and how lenient is lenient?